JOHN MANNING CAIN FAMILY OF GWINNETT COUNTY, GEORGIA

Compiled by Thelma Faye Cain Prince, © Copyright 1998
  Cain Index

Descendants of John Manning Cain

37.  JOHN RUFUS5 CAIN (LUKE ERVIN4, JOHNFRANCIS MARION3, JAMES J.2, JOHNMANNING1) was born January 21, 1896 in Lawrenceville, Gwinnett, Georgia, and died April 23, 1957 in Lawrenceville, Gwinnett, Georgia, buried Luxomni Bapt Cemetery. He married VERDA ESTELLE SORRELLS August 07, 1921 in Lawrenceville, Gwinnett, Georgia.Verda was born 9 July 1903, Gwinnett Co., and died Oct. 8, 1996, Middlesex Co. NJ.  She is buried in the Sorrells plot Bethesda  Methodist Church cemetery.

Odell Herrington told me on 19 April 1995 that John and all his siblings except the five youngest, Esther,Leonard, Carrie Belle, Odell, and Kathleen were born in a house near Lilburn, near the Hazelrigs Place and the Dr. Giles and Charlie Kelly's Place. The house has since been destroyed. Since Esther was born in January 1902, the Cains were in the Pleasant Hill homeplace by then, and the five youngest children were born there.John was raised there, and as a boy he and his brothers were a handful of laughter and antics I am told.

Daddy enlisted 10 December 1917, Atlanta, Ga. in the Navy , and was discharged on 22 July 1919. He was assigned to R.S. Norfolk, Virginia ship on which he served until 14 January 1919.   He became a second-class seaman on 1 March 1918 and received a War Chevron award on 1 December 1918, for his service on the U.S.S. Virginia.  His serial number was 1200508.   See these URLs  for the history and pictures of the U.S.S. VIRGINIA battleship:

http://www.history.navy.mil/photos/sh-usn/usnsh-v/bb13.htm

Then he was assigned to the U.S.S. NEW YORK  from 14 January 1919 until 31 March 1919.   As a last European mission, NEW YORK joined the ships escorting President Woodrow Wilson from an ocean rendezvous, to Brest en route to the Versailles Conference.   I was told he was on the NEW YORK when this happened.  See this URL for the history and pictures of the NEW YORK battleship: http://www.multied.com/Navy/battle/NY.html

Next he served on the U.S.S. NEW MEXICO from  31 March 1919 until 22 July 1919.   After initial training, NEW MEXICO departed New York 15 January 1919 for Brest, France, to escort home transport GEORGE WASHINGTON carrying President Woodrow Wilson from the Versailles Peace Conference, returning to Hampton Roads 27 February 1919.   My father was on the NEW YORK which escorted Wilson to this Peace Conference, but he was not on NEW MEXICO when it escorted Wilson's return to New York.  NEW MEXICO battleship history and pictures: http://www.warships1.com/US/USbb40-NM.htm

http://www.warships1.com/US/USbb40-NM-pics.htm

On his naval records John Cain said he was born in Gloster, Ga.  His brother, Calvin served along with him on the same ships.The records of John Cain's navy service are in the possession of me, his daughter, Thelma Faye Prince. They are fully abstracted in my book, OUR SOUTHERN ANCESTORS, Gateway Press, Baltimore, 1985.
 


Left to Right:Verda Cain (1946); Verda and John (1921); John Cain (1917) Verda, John, Elizabeth, Faye (1936)
Daddy's family were Baptists, attending Luxomni Baptist Church nearby their home.  He was a farmer in Gwinnett County from 1910-1937.  My parents wedding picture is above.  Their home was on Bethesda Church Road, just down from the Bethesda Methodist Church where my mother had gone to church since she was born.  I attended the first year of school at Bethesda school.

They moved to  Atlanta in 1937, where he worked for Atlantic Ice and Coal, and then a grocery brokerage firm and then as night watchman for the Great Southern Trucking Company,  He had a sixth grade education and could read and write.  In those days, boys often had to quit school early in order to work the farm.

He remained in Atlanta until 1954, then moved back to Gwinnett Co. and lived with Odell, Kathleen, and Fred, Esther, all at different times.  He had a stroke in March 1955, and lived the rest of his days with Fred and Lillie who took wonerful care of him along with other members of the Cain family.  His death occurred at Fred's home.  The funeral was held at Luxomni Baptist Church and he was buried there.

My mother, Verda Sorrells Cain, became ill the last five years of her life, battling osteoporosis of the spine, constant pain from spinal stenosis, arthritis, and finally in 1993, she was diagnosed with lymphoma, a cancer of the lymph system.

When she was well, she was so active, taking part in family relationships, keeping in touch with all the relatives and she continued to be the one who kept in touch by phone or cards and letters until the very end. She loved all of her family in the deepest way.

This tribute from me, Faye, was read at her funeral by Pastor Joe Douglass of Sayre Woods Bible Church, Old Bridge Township, NJ. The funeral was held on 9 October 1996 at the Michael Hegarty Funeral Home, Old Bridge Twsp.

"I'd like to say my mother encouraged and strengthened  me in my faith in our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, by the example of her life. She was a gracious, independent, very capable, giving, loving person during her life. She enjoyed doing for others, loved her family, including everyone that was "kin" to her. She taught me that family and friends are two of the most important things in my life.

The last few years she was unable to go out and had to have help in caring for herself, a task which I undertook willingly and lovingly. With God's help and prayer, I was able to do it, and I am thankful for the time I had with her on this earth. I look forward to joining her, my sister and my father, in God's time. She is safe from pain, suffering, disability, and is in the presence of our Lord.

Written in her own handwriting in a scrapbook she had: "Time has a magic for stealing away the heartache and sorrow that grieves you today. Time has a magic that always keeps near the cherished remembrance of someone so dear.

Also, from the Atlanta newspaper: "In loving memory of Elizabeth Cain Fenster, who left this life March 1, 1947. I do not understand but through faith I know there is a reason for everything, and that in God's own time He will manifest that reason. Faith makes clear to me that this life is only a preparation for an ultimate and intensely happy reunion with God and my loved ones gone on before."

To us, her immediate family, was written these words: " To you, my beloved family, I have no legacy of earthly wealth to leave you, but I do leave you a priceless legacy of love of God; it was given to me by my ancestors. I give it to you. Treasure and guard it well. Pass it on to your sons and daughters."

About 60 friends and relatives attended the funeral in NJ. The next day, Oct.10th, Carolyn, Jeffrey, and I flew to Georgia to lay her to rest. On Oct. 11, a one hour visiting in the Patterson funeral home, Harbins Rd., Lilburn, Ga. and burial at Bethesda Methodist Church Cemetery. Rev . Floyd Tenney officiated at the graveside service. Afterwards, we went to Larry Williford's house in Lawrenceville for lunch and visiting. About 60 friends and relatives attended the funeral in Georgia.

Obituary in News Tribune, Woodbridge, NJ, 9 Oct. 1996:

Verda E. Cain died yesterday at home. She was 93.
She was born in Gwinnett Co. Ga., and moved to Old Bridge 42 years ago.
Mrs. Cain had been a sales clerk and buyer for Rich's Dept. store many years before retiring.
Surviving are a daughter, Thelma Faye Prince of Old Bridge, NJ; a brother, William B. Sorrells of Costa Mesa, Calif., and two grandchildren. Services will be at 8PM Wednesday at the Michael Hegarty Funeral Home, 3377 Rt. 9, Old Bridge. Burial will be in Lawrenceville, Ga. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Sayre Woods Bible Church or your favorite charity.
Obituary in Atlanta Journal: Verda Cain, age93, died on Tuesday, October 8, 1996. Graveside service will be held 11:00 AM Friday at Bethesda United Methodist Cemetery in Lawrenceville. Mrs. Cain was formerly of Lawrenceville and Atlanta, most recently of NJ. Survivors: daughter, Thelma Faye Prince and son-in-law William L. Prince of Parlin, NJ; grandchildren, Carolyn Prince of Parlin and William Jeffrey Prince and wife, Connie Prince, of Hopewell, NJ; 3 great-grandchildren; brother William Benjamin Sorrells of Costa Mesa, Ca.
Family will receive friends at R.T.Patterson Funeral Home, Lilburn Chapel, 9:45 AM-10:45AM Friday. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to favorite charity or Bethesda United Methodist Church.

This is one of the things she kept all these years: Extraordinary Honor Certificate issued by Bethesda Sunday school.. This is to certify that Miss Verda Sorrells attended this Sunday School five Sundays in February 1920. Signed by R.E. Couey, Superintendent.. It is possible for a certificate of this character to be isssued only three times in one hundred years. Verda was the secretary of the Sunday school then and also signed the certificate.

My mother was christened at Bethesda Methodist as a child, and became a member there when she was 10 years old.  He father, Thomas Wiley Sorrells, was a Methodist preacher part-time, and filled the pulpits wherever asked.  Her mother was Lucy Ann Virginia Williams Sorrells.  For more on this family see http://www.oursouthernancestors.com/index.html

Mama was a farmer's wife and homemaker from 1921-1937, Gwinnett Co.  In Atlanta she was a dressmaker at the Dixie Dress Shop for awhile.  They call these places "sweat shops" nowadays.  It was hot and the work was done on an assembly line basis with in time limits.  she has the hardest part of the garments, zippers, lining, etc.

Then she was a sales clerk at Rich's in Atlanta, the largest department store at the time. She worked in fabrics, and then in belts, handbags under the escalator on the main floor.  This was our favorite place to meet in Atlanta.  Another favorite place to meet was at the clock on the building of Rich's on the corner of Broad and Alabama streets.

Her hobbies were quilting, crocheting, knitting, and gardening.  She did beautiful handwork.  She also loved to write and keep in touch with relatives.  She kept track of everyone's birthday and always sent greetings.

She had a ninth grade education at Bethesda School, and was the first President of the PTA which started there when she was an adult.

In 1954, she came from Atlanta to Middlesex NJ to live with Bill and me.  She lived here from 1954-1996, but she never forgot she was a Southerner, a true Rebel.

Children of JOHN CAIN and VERDA SORRELLS are:
 
i.
JAMES RUFUS6 CAIN, b. May 18, 1922, Gwinnett Co. Ga.; d. August 28, 1922, Gwinnett Co. Ga. Buried Luxomni Bapt. Cemetery.
ii.
MARY ELIZABETH CAIN, b. May 30, 1923, Gwinnett Co. Ga.; d. March 01, 1947, Atlanta, Fulton Co. Ga. Buried Greenwood Cemetery; m. THEODORE DAVID FENSTER, November 23, 1942, Atlanta, Fulton Co. Ga.  No children. He was b. 28 Aug. 1919, NY ; d.  11 May 1991,  Atlanta , Ga.



 
More About MARY ELIZABETH CAIN:

religion: Methodist
occupation: 1940, Cashier in department store, Rich's
occupation: housewife 1942-47, also waitress
hobbies: Reading, cooking
talents: Graduate, Commercial High School, Atlanta
special events: June 1945, Graduate, John Marshall Law School
Received Bachelor of Laws Degree
residences: 1923-1937, Gwninnett Co. Moved to Atlanta 1937
Cause of Death: Glomerulonephritis
Medical Information: Scarlet Fever age 16 with glomerulo-nephritis which destroyed her kidneys


 


More About THEODORE DAVID FENSTER:

religion: Jewish
occupation: 1942-1945, radio announcer, WGST, WATL, Atlanta, Ga.
occupation: 1944-1991, Attorney, Atlanta, Ga.
hobbies: Photography, movie camera
talents: Taught law John Marshall Law School
outstanding speaking voice
Dean of J.M. Law School, after dad died
residences: 1919, Early life Long Island, NY; moved to Atlanta as young man with parents, Samuel Benjamin and Lee Fenster.
military: 1941, Registered for draft; class 4-F, didn't serve


 
iii.
VIRGINIA ESTELLE CAIN, b. February 16, 1927, Gwinnett Co. Ga. Buried Luxomni Bapt. Cemetery; d. September 14, 1927, Gwinnett Co. Ga.  She had pneumonia and whooping cough.
62.
iv.
THELMA FAYE CAIN, b. February 22, 1932, Lawrenceville, Gwinnett Co. Ga. m. WILLIAM LOUIS PRINCE, 8 November 1953, Atlanta, Ga.

 

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